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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 08:19

How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Procrastinates a lot.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

From an axiology/value theory point of view, how can one say that a diverse society is better than a uniform one, especially given the negative effects of diversity (racism, sectarian conflict, problems arising from extreme cultural relativism)?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What is the meanest thing your husband has said to you?

Ask yourself:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why do Brits drive a lot more dangerously compared to Americans? Is there just no courtesy when driving in the UK?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):